26 August 2013

26 August 2013

Family!

I miss you all and I have read all of your letters! I’m not sure if I’ll have time to respond to everything in this email, so if I don't get to you, that means you’ll be getting a real letter from me in the mail, because I want to talk to all of you!
So first, UPDATE!!!!

I CAN NOT BELIEVE it has only been a week since I got here, so much has happened!!!!  My first missionary experience was in the Detroit airport, where we had a 30 minute layover. I was in the line at Taco Bell because we were starving, and we started talking to this man from Brazil, whose family was in America to go to Disney Land.  The line was so short, and before I had a chance to talk about the church, my companion was walking away!  But the further away we got, the more I knew I had to go back and talk to him, so we did.  We asked if he'd ever heard of us before, and he said yes, and he said that they were flying to the SLC airport on their way to California.  Immediately I remembered the signs there that advertised a free shuttle to the temple and back, and I told him they should go there during their layover.  He said he would like to, and I gave him a mormon.org card and told him to look it up.  It had my contact information on it, too.  I walked away, then, because we had to board our flight, but I felt really good that I had gone back and done what I needed to do. I have no idea what will happen with him and his family, but I hope they will look up that address!

My mission president and his wife are SO GREAT!  And I love my new companion, Sister Zarbock. (Dad, she is your former bishop’s granddaughter.  I asked her!) We have been having some AMAZING experiences already here. We opened a new area in North Carolina, where there haven't been sister missionaries in at least 25 years. The ward is SO excited to have us, and the sisters are signing up everywhere to come out on splits with us!  And we've been getting lots of dinner appointments and teaching referrals and everything.   The bishop is VERY missionary-work focused, and he hopes to divide the ward into two wards by the time he's done.  We are definitely happy to help him with that, and he has been very good at explaining to the members that we are here to help them teach their family and friends.  I absolutely love the ward!  The people have been so welcoming!  They furnished our apartment, gave us everything we could possibly need and more, and I don't know how we'll ever eat all the food they've given us!  They live, for the most part, in very humble living situations. I have really recognized as I've gone into people’s homes here that we are SO blessed. A lot of the places we tract in are tiny trailer homes with barely any wiggle room, literally!  Some of the families sleep in the main room because it's the only place to put a bed. And a lot of the poorer areas are dirty and falling apart.  WE ARE SO BLESSED!  We are also so spoiled in our family with the gospel. These are such good people, and I love them so much already!!!

You won't believe what has been happening with us this week. First of all, we got caught in a HUGE rainstorm!  We were trying to find the address of a recent convert, and we couldn't find it because it had been written wrong.  And the rain descended, and the floods came, and we were DRENCHED. We decided that there might be someone prepared near where we were, so we started knocking on some doors, and got two families to say we could come back, both of them Hispanic.  (XXX and XXXXX).

We went back the next day to see XXX, with a member of our ward named Sister XXXX.  We thought she could help explain some of the words they didn't understand in English.  But when we got there, we realized that they understood far less English than we had believed. And so at first we were really relying on Sister XXXX to translate for us, and I was thinking, this is never going to work!  But then I had the thought to just try teaching him really simply in the Spanish that I knew.  And I couldn't believe what came out of my mouth! I TAUGHT ALMOST THE ENTIRE RESTORATION LESSON IN SPANISH!!!   And they understood it!   The spirit was SO strong, and I was using religious vocabulary that I didn't even know I'd ever learned!  XXX and his wife said that they would like a Spanish copy of the Book of Mormon, and we are referring them to the Spanish-speaking missionaries in our zone.

We’ve definitely been seeing how the Lord has been guiding us. We pray before we plan in the evenings for the next day, and I’ve been able to feel and see how we are being guided and our mouths are being filled, and I know that it is because we’re preparing, being obedient, and working hard.

We received a referral from the elders for a woman named XXXXXXX. When we got to her home, she insisted that she had never met any of us before, but she let us in, and we taught her about the Restoration.   She was SO ready to hear this message.  She believes that Joseph Smith was a prophet, and she eagerly took the Book of Mormon to read with her little girl.  We just went back yesterday and taught her the Plan of Salvation, and she says that it makes so much sense, and when I asked her, she committed to be baptized! 

Actually, four people we taught made commitments to be baptized yesterday. It has been MIRACULOUS. Sister Zarbock and I were visiting the home of a less active family, and a little boy across the street yelled "Where are the boys?" We realized that he was talking about the elders, so we went over and talked to him.  He lived nearby and he told us that he wanted us to come to his house and teach his mom.  He's 9 years old!  We took down the address and went over yesterday, and both his mother, XXXX, as well as her friend XXXXX both committed to baptism! 

Another time, we were going past a street on the way home from TRYING to contact a referral, and we both felt like we should stop and go onto that street. We hoped that the woman we were looking for would be there.  She wasn't, but Sister Zarbock saw a young man named XXXXX sitting on the curb and we started talking to him, and gave him a Book of Mormon and said we'd come back the next day (it was late). We came back and talked.  At first it was not going well, until I really felt like I needed to sit down next to him on the porch. (We had been standing over him, and I realized that might not make him feel comfortable.) We all sat down and really got on his level, and he totally opened up to us about what he wanted in a church and that he really wanted God more in his heart.  We taught him the restoration lesson and promised that this would bring him what he was looking for.  We asked if, when he knew that for himself, would he be baptized? And he said yes!  At the end of the lesson, we asked if he would pray, and we had to teach him how because he'd never done it.  Then, when he prayed, it was the sweetest and most sincere prayer I ever heard. 

We have one more investigator who has also committed to be baptized.  She is a friend of Brother XXXXX, and she wanted to learn more about the Book of Mormon.  We told her “all right.”  When she came into the house, I initially thought from her tattoos and manner of dress that she might not be interested.  But when we taught her about the restoration of the gospel, she LOVED it, and said she absolutely would pray to know about it and come to church, and once she knew, she would definitely be baptized.   I love her!

Please pray for all of our investigators, because now that they have set dates to be baptized, you know they'll be experiencing some heavy opposition.

We also ran into a man as we were walking to our apartment, and started talking.  When we got on the topic of God, he said he was an atheist. We both had no clue what to say when he berated the idea that there was a god or a spirit or anything like that. But then I just felt really strongly that he needed to hear about the restoration of the fullness of the gospel. I told him about Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon, and that this was the evidence he had been looking for (even though he hadn't said he'd been looking for any). I'm not going to say that he did a complete 180 on us, but something softened, because he took the Book of Mormon and said he would read and pray about it, and we set up an appointment.  :)  I could definitely feel the spirit speaking through me, because I definitely had no idea what I was going to say before I said it. His name is XXXXX.

I finally ran into some (relatives--same surname as Grandmother Pace's maiden name)! They are on the ward roster as inactive members. We went over to their house and met Brother XXXXXXX’s wife.  She is Catholic.  Brother XXXXXXX hasn't been active in church for years.  His sweet wife  seemed uncomfortable, initially, when we talked about church, but she got all smiley when we started talking about her family members, who she dotes on. They were on their way out, but we are going back to see them this week, and I hope we can build on that!!!   Fun to meet distant relatives!

My shoes have been GREAT, I love them, except for the Sister Missionary tan line I'm getting from them.  Haha!! :)

My Preparation Day is on Tuesday next week because of Labor Day, so I can write more then.  And I can load pictures here, but I forgot my connector cord at home, so I promise I will do it next week!!

Dad:  Good luck manicuring the acreage in Missouri.  Sounds like you’re doing good work! Tell everyone there I said hello!!!  I haven't gotten to the sudoku book yet today, but I will later, and in my next email I'll tell you how much I beat you by!!! 

Mom:  I'm so glad that the birthday dinner went well!  I love the quotes.  II laughed out loud and annoyed the person sitting next to me! :) I miss you guys!

Sarah:  Yes.  Typing classes would be a good move for you. Check your inbox.

Emily:  I'm really glad to hear about the awesome service you’ve been doing!  Check your inbox.

Hannah:  You are so awesome with the family history.  You rock!  Someday I hope to rise to your coolness status!  Speaking of “cool,” I'm not allowed to say it anymore.  Or “awesome.” So in your next email I need you all to supply me with some alternatives, because I'm already bored with “neat” and “great.”  Be creative. :)

Ryan:   I love you buddy, and I'm glad you're having fun with friends.  I hope school started off great, and you like your teachers and everything.  Keep me posted on what you are up to!!

Carter: How was the scout campout?  I wanna hear more about it!  How did you hoist yourself into a tree?

Ethan:   That’s great about your new lego set.  How neat! I want to see pictures of your glorious creations.

Chloe:  I miss your beautiful face! How is your hair, do you still like it?  How is school? Send me some more drawings.   I love them!

Abby:  You will love kindergarten.  I'm so excited for you!!! And you've been learning to read?   Read this: I LOVE ABBY!   :)

I love you all and I miss you!  Have a good week.  Talk to you next Tuesday!


Love, Elizabeth
Arrived in North Carolina.  With President and Sister Craven

22 August 2013

18 August 2013 From the MTC



Dear Family,

WOW, I have so much to tell you, I don't even know where to start!  In my zone, today was our first P-Day, which is why I haven't written before now. It has been NUTS here at the MTC, so much has been going on!  Right after I left you guys, I met my companion Sister Williams. She is GREAT. She is cute and fun and very loving and sincere. Being at the MTC has been really great for both of us.  We have been learning SO MUCH. Like Dad said, you are constantly going from one thing to another. The days feel like WEEKS, but the weeks feel like DAYS. I can't believe it has already been a week, and that I'm leaving for the field on Monday! OH OH OH!!! VERY IMPORTANT! I'm allowed to call you guys before I get on the plane, so Monday morning at around 7:00, probably earlier, you should all be awake and expecting a call from me!
We've been working really hard and studying a lot! I would give you a run-down of my schedule, but it changes pretty often.  We always get up at 6:30, have personal study at 7:00, breakfast, classroom instruction for 3 hours, lunch, 3 more hours of class, and then dinner. But in addition to that we have TONS of teaching opportunities!  People come and volunteer to pose as investigators for us to teach. And they are REALLY good!  We have been teaching a DARLING Korean woman named Kyong Ming for the last 3 days. She has a Bhuddist background, but never had faith in Bhuddism. She struggles to believe that God loves all of His children because of all the suffering in the world, and she is afraid to have faith in a religion that is not the right one. But over the last 3 days we have taught her to pray and she's been doing it on her own.  We also gave her a Book of Mormon and she read it, and when we came back we read it together. And we asked her if, when she knew these things were true, she would be baptized.  She said yes! It was a really neat experience. We've had similar success with another investigator named Nathan. He's divorced and remarried with two kids, and another on the way. He lost his job, and had to move here because they couldn't afford their home. He had a bitter experience with the Baptist church and hasn't communicated with God in a while. We encouraged him to pray, and he has been. In fact, he got a job offer, and he believes it is the answer to his prayers. He took the Book of Mormon and he read part of it, and when we extended the same challenge to him of baptism, he also accepted!  And we told him we would like to teach his wife and children, and he said yes to that too!  It's funny how even though I know they are actors, I feel so much love for them, and I really want them to be happy!  J
I have been learning so much about being a missionary and how to teach. I have some good fundamental teaching skills, but man I was just scraping the surface!  There is so much to learn it can be a little like drinking out of a fire hose, but after every class I have learned about how to be a better teacher, and I have seen my teaching improve in every discussion! 
Our district leader is Elder Pyne, who is SO great. So is everyone in my district by the way, I can't believe how lucky we are to have so many awesome people in our group!  The zone leaders are also in our district, elder Zahrabelny from Canada, and Elder Tani from Hawaii. Also, Sister Williams and I have been called to be the Sister Training Leaders for the zone. We just got two new districts yesterday, so we had a ton of orientation and stuff to do for them. It's been really exciting and fun!  I'm glad the Lord trusts me to be a leader of the other sisters, and I'm trying to set a good example for them.  I just had companion inventory with Sis Williams last night, and we made some goals.  We are pretty good at being obedient, but I want to work harder at being EXACTLY obedient.  Don't worry, Mom--I'm getting up on time. Actually, I'm getting up way earlier than that. We just always seem to be 5 minutes late to class every morning. I told her that I wanted to do better than that, and this morning we were early! :) 

Man oh man, I had no idea how much a person could pray in one day!!  I feel like I'm saying a prayer every 5 minutes. The spirit at the MTC is SO STRONG. No wonder there is an unnatural amount of learning going on here!  And we all just got priesthood blessings on Sunday from the members of our district.  Elder Smith gave me mine, and it was SO wonderful. It's amazing how the spirit can tell them exactly what to say even though they don't know me very well. It was Elder Smith's first blessing, and I could feel his hands shaking on my head!  It was adorable.
I know there is probably so much more to say, but I only have ten more minutes!!! AHH!!!

To All Future Missionaries: MTC Tips
STUDY Preach My Gospel before.  And don't waste your time. I totally regret all the time I ever wasted. Don't do it!!
Bring a water bottle, or you'll get dehydrated, and that stinks.
Take into account that the missionary tag will pull down on your shirt, and wear an undershirt if that's going to be a problem.
Sarah will have to accept that all the elders are tone deaf. But if she sings hymns in the shower, all the sisters will join in and harmonize.  It's awesome!
You can get your hair cut for free one time during your stay here. 
Also, you can get two articles of clothing altered for 50 cents.
Your relationship with your companion is important, but BE OBEDIENT. Obedience brings blessings, but exact obedience brings miracles. 
Memorize scriptures so the spirit can bring them to your mind during discussions.
Don't come thinking you know everything. That attitude will keep you from learning in the beginning. Be humble!
Bring a watch.
Be open and honest with your teachers. They want you to understand. Take advantage of their experience and ask them for advice.
Be open with your branch president.  He loves you!
Don’t be afraid to tell your district when you want them to be more focused and invite the spirit. We all want to be good missionaries.
We have an hour at the gym every day. They have basketball, volleyball and foursquare courts, and they also have a track, elliptical machines, and weight machines. It's great, and super fun.
Have Dad give you a blessing right before you go.  I'm sad I can't get a blessing from him for 18 months.
Stay positive and faith-filled. It can be overwhelming here. Emily, you'll especially need to remember this. Don’t get discouraged by all you still need to learn.  You can continuously improve!  Also, being positive helps you be a rock for the other sisters to turn to.  We can't all be dissolving into a wreck with a missionary tag on.

Dad:  Thanks for the bike stuff, that's great!  And as far as I know, you can send me the pictures and newsletter stuff. That's awesome about Abby and Ethan's talks.   SO COOL!
Mom:  Tell Chloe congrats on her tooth, I'm glad she prayed and found it!  And I'm super glad I didn't have to help with moving, that sounds like really hard work!!!  But go you guys!!!  And good luck on Grandfather's video!!!  OH AND MY PACKAGE WAS SO GREAT I LOVED IT!!!!!  Thanks so much!!! The mints keep me alive during long classes.
Sarah:  Write me. Also, you will love it here. I was thinking about you all week, and I've been writing down these tips for you guys every time I think something is good to know. You'll be a pro when you get here! Also, Blake Ellis says hi.
Emily: Those goals sound awesome!  How is the temple and scripture study going? You'll do a great job as being the oldest, probs better than me! :) Good luck with the start of your senior year, keep me posted on what's going on with you!
Hannah: I totally wish that I had the black notebook with your story in it, but I don't. You should send me one! I am having a great time.. :) Have fun starting high school!
Ryan: You should write me, too. Love you anyway though. Are you starting 8th grade right now? Cuz that would be nuts. Let me know what's going on!!!
Carter: I am so glad you asked me about what you can pray for, so I saved this part for you.  I would really love it if you could pray for me to have courage. It's a little scary to ask people to be baptized and stuff! And pray for me to find the people who are prepared to hear the message of the gospel of Jesus Christ. And that I can have the spirit with me to know what I need to do and say to help the spirit bring that message to their hearts. My favorite thing to do at the MTC is teach, even though at first I wasn't very good at it. The practice is so great, and I learn so much. The minute I got to teach my first investigator on the first night here, I knew even more than before that coming on a mission was the right thing to do. I love teaching people and helping them come closer to Jesus Christ! The work is hard, but it makes me happy, and the spirit helps me all along the way! 
Ethan: I love you!  Write me, buddy. I want to hear all about what you are doing right now, and how popular you are with all your friends. :) And that is so awesome about your talk. I want to hear about it, you'll rock it!
Chloe and Abby: Next time Mom sends a package or a letter, send me some of your beautiful drawings!

I love ALL of you, and I wish I had longer to email right now. Maybe in the field I will have more time, but in the MTC it's scheduled. If there are any questions I haven't answered, ask them again so I don't forget!!!

I'm going to hurry and send some pictures!!! I love you all SO SO SO much, and I miss you and I want to hear from you!!!

Elizabeth

05 August 2013

Gone to Carolina in My Mind

How To Contact Me :)



       The time has finally come! At the end of my winter semester at BYU, I received a call to serve an 18 month mission in Charlotte, North Carolina. After an ENTIRE SUMMER of working and shopping and waiting and packing, I am FINALLY entering the MTC on Wednesday, August 7th!!!
       My family will be updating this blog for me while I’m away, but thank you in advance for your support! If you want to reach me while I’m in Charlotte, (and I hope you do) you can reach me anytime by email at

If you’d like to send letters or packages, WHICH I LOVE, then the mission home/main office address is:

 3020 Hilliard Drive, Charlotte, NC 28205.  
  Any mail received at the mission office will need to wait for hand delivery at Transfers, Zone Conferences or Mission Leadership Councils.   Possibly a three-week wait.

For my current mailing address, where I'll receive things the fastest, please email my mother at barbarampace@gmail.com.  She will always have it, and is happy to share it with people I know.  (But she doesn't want to broadcast my residential address on the internet.)